Know-it-all-not-a-nice-person-at-all

This post started out as my 7 Weeks post ... but it isn't right ... that should be about me and not someone who is just a know-it-all-not-a-nice-person-at-all ...

I found out this weekend that my brother-in-law's wife is pregnant ... the 4 of us have kind of a rocky relationship ... the last email I got from my BIL was mean and hurtful and totally uncalled for ... and haven't spoken to him since ... so I was a bit surprised she sent me an instant message ... we chatted for quite some time on Friday night ... and I would be lying if I didn't say the conversation left me hurt and upset ... even today, 3 days later ...

She will be a first time mom ... basically during our convo she let me know I was a bad mom, that they were shocked we were having another kid cause they figured since I didn't have one right away after Curly Top that I was just too old to do it now ... (BTW it is not a medical miracle that I am pregnant - I'm 38) ... that morning sickness hits in week 7 so I will be feeling it soon enough (she is on week 10 today) - even though I didn't have it last time, and didn't feel like I would this time ...

Oh lets just say I could go on and on - her asking me if I was going to take better care of myself this time so I didn't have to go into the hospital and have my baby so early risking my daughters health and life ...

Seriously ... out of all this don't ever say I am a bad mom ... I am the best mom I know how to be and I give everything to my daughter ... she is my life ...

I don't understand how you blame the mom that the baby is big and it is time for her arrival even if it is early ...

Oh man ... ok ... I have to stop ... I'm going to go now and do my 7 weeks post ...