One thing I am very thankful for ... David and I have zero credit card debt ... that is a big accomplishment ... I have many friends with 1000s owed to credit cards ...
unfortunately I have a student loan that is the bane of my existence ... it just kills me that I owe 1000s for a college education and that I dropped out a few credits shy of graduating ...
it also kills me that I had the 2 loans when I was living with my ex and that I covered the majority of our expenses during those years together and now my husband is having to help me pay the loan ... it isn't right ... my ex should have to contribute some money ... half would be fair ... I would even take a third ... he took out one loan during that time ... his dad paid for school ... and he didn't work ... I had two loans and two jobs ... what a fucking sucker I was ... at the time I figured when it came time to pay them back he would still be with me and we would pay them together ... I really should have been smarter than that ...
I think I will be into my 60s by the time I pay this thing off ... that just makes my stomach drop ... there should be counseling before signing the papers ... some way to truly see how long you will be shelling money out ...
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