Bridezilla

Funny I should get a Bridezilla comment ... I have come to a conclusion ... when you are planning a wedding people are assholes ... now not everyone ... but many are and they force perfectly nice and kind women to become beasts ...


I actually interviewed a photographer that told me under no circumstances would she take a photo of each table ... this is my only required photo of the whole day ... to ensure that everyone that is attending the wedding gets in a picture ... and she said no ... I was flabbergasted ... it is my wedding and I am paying for her services and she can say the one photo I want she won't take ... so I sounded like Bridezilla whenever I spoke to a photographer ...


I also paid someone to do part of our invitations ... David and I have chosen to make our own ... but to save us a bit of time I hired someone to print part of it and drill holes and cut a section ... it was supposed to take 7 days and I ordered it on November 1, 2003 ... it finally arrived to me on December 30, 2003 ... WAY more than 7 days ... and it was TERRIBLE ... oh my god the holes were punched at different heights and different widths from the edges of the paper and from each other ... there was no way the 4 holes could have been more different from each other when they should have been exactly the same as each other ... and nothing was printed centered ... the tops and left side had way more "white space" than the right and bottom ... it forced me to become bridezilla waiting 2 months for something that was supposed to take 7 days and then to have it look so horrible ... I made her purchase more of the items for me and we will now do all the printing, drilling and cutting ourselves ...


I've also learned if you call to get a quote for something it is one price ... if you later call to get that same quote for a wedding it is 3 times the price ... what the fuck is up with that ... how right does that seem ...


so they make women become crazy while planning ... and each thing builds up a bit more and a bit more ... it is no wonder someone freaks out because the pink is the wrong shade ... they held it together while people did crappy work and overcharged them and didn't follow through and missed appointments ... now the pink is a bitch ... hahahahaaaaaa


I told myself I wouldn't turn this into a bridal blog ... but there is nothing else really interesting going on in my life ... although I have lost 11 pounds in the last 9 days so something must be going well with my diet ...


so if anyone feels like seeing all my dorky wedding stuff that I have been doing then check out: my wedding stuff ... we are making anything we can ... favors ... invitations ... I am doing all my own flowers ... stickers ... all sorts of shit ... so I would say if you are really bored it is a good place to check out ... hahahhaaaaaaaa